Wanted: Married Men...

Remember Woody Allen’s Match Point area distinct woman (Scarlett Johansson) is pursued relentlessly by a affiliated man and after dumped, alike killed, back she coaxes him to be with her, acknowledgment the attenuate band amid adulation and lust!

The distinct woman-married man aisle has been explored on reel and in absolute life, like a adult Barbara Mori arena the third bend in the Bollywood amateur Hrithik Roshan and Susanne Roshan adulation news or Sushmita Sen falling for Vikram Bhatt, now her ex.

Actress Shabana Azmi and Javed Akhtar’s adulation news too started back the artist was affiliated to another, as it did for Sridevi and Boney Kapoor, and Sarika and ex-husband Kamal Hassan, besides Hollywood sweethearts Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt. A affiliated man confesses, “Why is it that back we are taken, we get a lot added absorption from distinct women than anytime before?” Stand-up amateur and amateur Vir Das explains, “Women appearance men as projects. In the case of affiliated men, bisected the assignment has been done and distinct women can acquire the benefits.”

Is it additionally about the banned bake-apple actuality sweeter? Says extra Pooja Bedi, “It’s the action of the chase. A affiliated man doesn’t crave any hand-holding. But it could be adverse for both the bodies involved.”

Agrees analyst Varsha Pathak, “A affiliated man can accommodate a defended environment. He knows the absolute mathematics of clearing down.”

Reema (name changed), who’s dating a affiliated man shares, “Single guys apprehend too much. I accept a animated assignment schedule... A affiliated man is added understanding.” Adds Kakkar, “Single women adopt a appropriately affiliated man so they can acquire all allowances after any effort”

And it’s not alone the women who seek such an alliance, it’s the affiliated men too. Jokes adman Prahlad Kakkar, “Married men feel beholden back distinct women alternate their advances, clashing a distinct man who takes this absorption for granted. And back he has accomplished a assertive position in life, he can allow to be generous.”

Explains analyst Seema Hingorrany, “Married men seek distinct women due to apparent apathy or abhorrence in their marriage. It’s not consistently about sex. They may be accepting no acknowledgment in a alliance and seek approval in artful flings. It happens with affiliated women too.”

Confesses Kshitij (name changed), “I accept been affiliated for eight years and feel unloved. My wife is way too active with her job to alike notice. My activity gives me the acumen to break in my marriage.”

But the calamity that such relations can actualize is not article that can be overlooked. Boney Kapoor’s ex-wife Mona, who was still affiliated to him back he started dating Sridevi, said about their separation, “Had I not afar from Boney, the affliction would accept afflicted my absolute actuality and embodied itself in negativity and bloom problems. It was a agonizing situation. I bare time to lick my wounds, to air them and let the animosity ebb. But now, I accept confused on in life.”

But does the acerbity end there? Confesses Deepti (name changed), “Every time I see my bedmate accepting affable to a distinct woman, I feel threatened.” For a affiliated woman, a distinct woman is addition who’s chargeless to do her own thing.

But not all diplomacy alpha already the guy is hitched. Confesses Srishti (name changed), who is still with her ex, “I do feel bouts of annoyance back I brainstorm his wife and him calm but at least, he still has me by his side.”

Quips Kakkar, “It’s accessible to get rid of a affiliated man... Just acquaint him you will acquaint his wife and he will be gone afore you apperceive it.”