Wanted: Married Men...

Remember Woody Allen’s Match Point area distinct woman (Scarlett Johansson) is pursued relentlessly by a affiliated man and after dumped, alike killed, back she coaxes him to be with her, acknowledgment the attenuate band amid adulation and lust!

The distinct woman-married man aisle has been explored on reel and in absolute life, like a adult Barbara Mori arena the third bend in the Bollywood amateur Hrithik Roshan and Susanne Roshan adulation news or Sushmita Sen falling for Vikram Bhatt, now her ex.

Actress Shabana Azmi and Javed Akhtar’s adulation news too started back the artist was affiliated to another, as it did for Sridevi and Boney Kapoor, and Sarika and ex-husband Kamal Hassan, besides Hollywood sweethearts Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt. A affiliated man confesses, “Why is it that back we are taken, we get a lot added absorption from distinct women than anytime before?” Stand-up amateur and amateur Vir Das explains, “Women appearance men as projects. In the case of affiliated men, bisected the assignment has been done and distinct women can acquire the benefits.”

Is it additionally about the banned bake-apple actuality sweeter? Says extra Pooja Bedi, “It’s the action of the chase. A affiliated man doesn’t crave any hand-holding. But it could be adverse for both the bodies involved.”

Agrees analyst Varsha Pathak, “A affiliated man can accommodate a defended environment. He knows the absolute mathematics of clearing down.”

Reema (name changed), who’s dating a affiliated man shares, “Single guys apprehend too much. I accept a animated assignment schedule... A affiliated man is added understanding.” Adds Kakkar, “Single women adopt a appropriately affiliated man so they can acquire all allowances after any effort”

And it’s not alone the women who seek such an alliance, it’s the affiliated men too. Jokes adman Prahlad Kakkar, “Married men feel beholden back distinct women alternate their advances, clashing a distinct man who takes this absorption for granted. And back he has accomplished a assertive position in life, he can allow to be generous.”

Explains analyst Seema Hingorrany, “Married men seek distinct women due to apparent apathy or abhorrence in their marriage. It’s not consistently about sex. They may be accepting no acknowledgment in a alliance and seek approval in artful flings. It happens with affiliated women too.”

Confesses Kshitij (name changed), “I accept been affiliated for eight years and feel unloved. My wife is way too active with her job to alike notice. My activity gives me the acumen to break in my marriage.”

But the calamity that such relations can actualize is not article that can be overlooked. Boney Kapoor’s ex-wife Mona, who was still affiliated to him back he started dating Sridevi, said about their separation, “Had I not afar from Boney, the affliction would accept afflicted my absolute actuality and embodied itself in negativity and bloom problems. It was a agonizing situation. I bare time to lick my wounds, to air them and let the animosity ebb. But now, I accept confused on in life.”

But does the acerbity end there? Confesses Deepti (name changed), “Every time I see my bedmate accepting affable to a distinct woman, I feel threatened.” For a affiliated woman, a distinct woman is addition who’s chargeless to do her own thing.

But not all diplomacy alpha already the guy is hitched. Confesses Srishti (name changed), who is still with her ex, “I do feel bouts of annoyance back I brainstorm his wife and him calm but at least, he still has me by his side.”

Quips Kakkar, “It’s accessible to get rid of a affiliated man... Just acquaint him you will acquaint his wife and he will be gone afore you apperceive it.”

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Green sex........

London, Apr 4 (ANI): Here's some acceptable account for eco-friendly couples: You can get pleasure sex and additionally advice save the planet, says Stefanie Weiss who has appear up with an eco-sex guide.

Some of the tips in the eco-guide are:

1 Accepting sex on a accustomed acrylic mattress. Not alone it's added eco- affable than one fabricated of springs and constructed material, it's additionally beneath bouncy.

2 Biodegradable, fair-trade condoms

3 Organic aphrodisiacs. The account for women includes avocado and chocolate, while the basil, bay blade and biscuit for blokes.

In Eco-Sex: Go Blooming Between the Sheets and Accomplish Your Love Activity Sustainable, columnist Weiss insists "eco-sex can be abundant sex, afterwards any accident of pleasure", letters The Account of the World.

She warns: "Prophylactics (that's condoms to you) generally get tossed in the toilet afterwards use, area they anon accomplish their way into the sewers and again the baptize arrangement or ocean."

Condoms fabricated of polyurethane, a plastic, do not breach bottomward at all, while alike biodegradable types booty years to breach bottomward in water.

The adviser additionally appearance amative recipes by raw-food chef Sarma Melngailis.

Environmentalist Weiss said: "I anticipate blooming sex is accepting its moment. People realise their everyday, best affectionate habits, are affiliated to this crisis we are in."

She added, "It was the best fun I accept anytime had researching a book in my life." (ANI)

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India was aware of hacking threat......

NEW DELHI: Last week, Indian cyber security officials were in Toronto to meet the researchers from Munk School of Global Affairs whose year-long project, `Shadows in the Cloud', tracked cyber espionage attempts against computers and servers in some 31 countries, but overwhelmingly in India, including the national security and defence establishments. Other "entities of interest", according to the report, included private sector servers like The Times of India.

Over the past few months, after the first reports of a China-based network of cyber spies emerged, Indian officials in key departments have been on a silent overdrive to stop the attacks and monitor servers.

To this extent, sources told TOI they had even placed "ploys" on different servers that were being targeted, as bait to entice cyber warriors to track them to their source.

Sachin Pilot, minister of state for IT and telecommunications, said, "We need to be extra vigilant about cyber terrorism, because this can inflict attacks of an assymetric nature, and is therefore that much more dangerous." Pilot has been tracking cyber espionage and has even been in touch with the Canadian researchers. He observed that government systems had not been compromised.

Cert-IN, the official emergency response unit of the government, has suggested counter-measures to guard against such espionage. Pilot said new products were getting introduced regularly and software not tested properly contained zero-day vulnerabilities.

In fact, Indian agencies have been on alert for some time now, and their preventive actions have been reasonably successful. The national security establishment, defence and intelligence agencies follow a complex, multi-layered system to avoid access to their information. Officials said the really classified stuff was not on open networks at all.

However, other parts of the government, for instance, the finance ministry, have been compromised according to sources familiar with developments, because their security may be that much more lax.

A quiet effort is underway to set up defensive mechanisms, but cyber warfare is yet to become a big component of India's security doctrine. Dedicated teams of officials, all underpaid of course, are involved in a daily deflection of attacks. But the real gap in the Indian system is that a retaliatory offensive system has not yet been created to counter them. And it's not difficult, said sources. Chinese networks are very porous, and India is an acknowledged IT giant.

During M K Narayanan's tenure as national security advisor, the NSC had developed a comprehensive cyber security policy, but this was never implemented.

Courtesy: Times of India

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Woman survives a bullet in her brain

Heena had little hope of survival after her spurned lover shot at her in a fit of rage. Three bullets pierce her in the brain, heart and hand. But today, a week later, the 24- year- old is recovering from the trauma thanks to doctors.

The young woman is an arts graduate from Delhi University and a resident of Daryaganj.

The police said she was attacked when she rejected a marriage offer.

One of the three bullets entered her left middle ear and broke her ear bone before getting embedded in the brain. The other two cut into her right arm and heart.

The injuries multiplied the threat of complications and doctors had little time to decide which problem to tackle first.

"Heena was brought to us at 10.30 pm last Saturday in a critical condition. She had multiple bullet injuries and was bleeding heavily," said Dr Amit Banerjee, medical superintendent at Lok Nayak Hospital where Heena was operated upon.

The doctors performed a CT scan of Heena's brain which showed a bullet deeply embedded in the inner side of the brain.

"We were shocked to see such a case. The bullet entered the brain through the left ear and hit the skull. She was lucky because the bullet did not damage any part of the brain that controls body functions," said Dr P. N. Pandey, the head of the neurosurgery department at Lok Nayak Hospital.

The doctors were worried since even a minor lapse in the surgery could cause the patient's death.

"Heena had a rib fracture, too, leading to haematoma or heavy loss of blood. This also added to the complexity of the surgery," said Pandey.

Haematoma caused her chest cavity to get filled with blood.

"The major blood loss led to a drop in her haemoglobin count.

She was given two units of blood before the surgery," said Dr Banwari Lal, co - surgeon on the surgical team.

The surgery, which lasted more than two hours, took place on March 31.

Though the bullet grazed bones and nerves in Heena's brain, she survived because none of them was damaged.

"The sigmoid bone and sinus was affected but saved. None of the major nerves was affected by the wound. Vital brain structures, veins and arteries supplying blood to the brain as well as the facial nerve were all touched but not damaged," said Dr Lal.

Though the doctors declared the operation successful, they have not ruled out the possibility of infections and other complications in future. "The bullet has damaged parts of her middle ear. This may cause conductive deafness in future. Though the bullet did not damage the inner ear, which controls the body's balance, there will be a slight impact in this aspect, too. She may suffer from dizziness and vertigo," said Dr Pandey.

Heena is now under constant observation of the doctors and is said to be 'fine'.

Heena's lucky escape

THE INITIAL DAMAGE

Three bullets were fired at Heena. She arrived in the hospital in critical condition. One of them entered her left ear, broke the ear bone and got embedded deeply in the inner part of her brain. One bullet wounded her in the right arm. The third bullet grazed her heart.

This led to heavy blood loss, reducing the haemoglobin count and filling her chest cavity with blood.

HOW HEENA SURVIVED

According to the Lok Nayak hospital, where Heena was operated upon, she was lucky.

Though the bullet that hit the brain touched bones and nerves, none of the vital parts that affect normal functions of the body was damaged. The sigmoid bone and sinus were affected, but not damaged beyond repair.

Similarly, the vital brain structures, arteries supplying blood to the brain and the facial nerves were left undamaged.

THE CURRENT STATUS

Doctors said the operation on Heena was successful. However they warned of complications in future. Though the bullet left the inner ear, which controls the body's balance, intact, Heena may suffer from vertigo and dizziness later in life. As the bullet damaged the middle ear, she may suffer from conductive deafness .

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Woman survives a bullet in her brain

Heena had little hope of survival after her spurned lover shot at her in a fit of rage. Three bullets pierce her in the brain, heart and hand. But today, a week later, the 24- year- old is recovering from the trauma thanks to doctors.

The young woman is an arts graduate from Delhi University and a resident of Daryaganj.

The police said she was attacked when she rejected a marriage offer.

One of the three bullets entered her left middle ear and broke her ear bone before getting embedded in the brain. The other two cut into her right arm and heart.

The injuries multiplied the threat of complications and doctors had little time to decide which problem to tackle first.

"Heena was brought to us at 10.30 pm last Saturday in a critical condition. She had multiple bullet injuries and was bleeding heavily," said Dr Amit Banerjee, medical superintendent at Lok Nayak Hospital where Heena was operated upon.

The doctors performed a CT scan of Heena's brain which showed a bullet deeply embedded in the inner side of the brain.

"We were shocked to see such a case. The bullet entered the brain through the left ear and hit the skull. She was lucky because the bullet did not damage any part of the brain that controls body functions," said Dr P. N. Pandey, the head of the neurosurgery department at Lok Nayak Hospital.

The doctors were worried since even a minor lapse in the surgery could cause the patient's death.

"Heena had a rib fracture, too, leading to haematoma or heavy loss of blood. This also added to the complexity of the surgery," said Pandey.

Haematoma caused her chest cavity to get filled with blood.

"The major blood loss led to a drop in her haemoglobin count.

She was given two units of blood before the surgery," said Dr Banwari Lal, co - surgeon on the surgical team.

The surgery, which lasted more than two hours, took place on March 31.

Though the bullet grazed bones and nerves in Heena's brain, she survived because none of them was damaged.

"The sigmoid bone and sinus was affected but saved. None of the major nerves was affected by the wound. Vital brain structures, veins and arteries supplying blood to the brain as well as the facial nerve were all touched but not damaged," said Dr Lal.

Though the doctors declared the operation successful, they have not ruled out the possibility of infections and other complications in future. "The bullet has damaged parts of her middle ear. This may cause conductive deafness in future. Though the bullet did not damage the inner ear, which controls the body's balance, there will be a slight impact in this aspect, too. She may suffer from dizziness and vertigo," said Dr Pandey.

Heena is now under constant observation of the doctors and is said to be 'fine'.

Heena's lucky escape

THE INITIAL DAMAGE

Three bullets were fired at Heena. She arrived in the hospital in critical condition. One of them entered her left ear, broke the ear bone and got embedded deeply in the inner part of her brain. One bullet wounded her in the right arm. The third bullet grazed her heart.

This led to heavy blood loss, reducing the haemoglobin count and filling her chest cavity with blood.

HOW HEENA SURVIVED

According to the Lok Nayak hospital, where Heena was operated upon, she was lucky.

Though the bullet that hit the brain touched bones and nerves, none of the vital parts that affect normal functions of the body was damaged. The sigmoid bone and sinus were affected, but not damaged beyond repair.

Similarly, the vital brain structures, arteries supplying blood to the brain and the facial nerves were left undamaged.

THE CURRENT STATUS

Doctors said the operation on Heena was successful. However they warned of complications in future. Though the bullet left the inner ear, which controls the body's balance, intact, Heena may suffer from vertigo and dizziness later in life. As the bullet damaged the middle ear, she may suffer from conductive deafness .

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